Thursday, May 20, 2010

patience really helps..

Over years i have found out[by experience] that what ever situation ur in a little bit more patience at that very moment makes a lot of difference....like when you are constantly getting irritated while studying by others[mom especially] or when confronting an irritated child[due to sickness] and its parents or in obg labour rooms where the ever pouring admission [atleast 25-40 new in a 12 hr shift totaling around 60] makes u loose ur cool and frequently usually end up shouting at them.
At the start of my internship last yr i had made a decision..never frustrate out on an ailing patient's kins,a child's parents[from my personal experience] and on a pregnant lady having labour pains [which is equivalent to an amputated finger].Looking back at it now makes me really contended and happy that atleast somewhere i was right for a moment and treated the people the way they deserve.

p.s-
one of my close friends still regrets for shouting at those innocent pregnant ladies.
i loose my cool when it comes to incompetent nurses and ward boys.
saw legend of bagger vance yesterday....nice entertaining watch...[starring Matt damon and Will smith]

6 comments:

Lo11211ganO_Kellam said...

Hard day......................................................................

Vyazz said...

Yet to start internship (starting around july-august).....but since I do end up as a short fuse, I outta keep ur good advice in mind!!! :)

Satheesh Kumar said...

Great virtue indeed. I shall try it in my professional life too. Learning from own experience is far different from learning from books or from others' advice. They are never the same. When we suffer something we can never even think of facing the same suffering again. So we usually be very cautious and prevent the repetition of such a situation. Neways, very informative post it is! And hadn't seen this movie yet. Shall try later.

Mithrandir said...

i regret it very much dude....
but internship has taught me too to be much more patient than i ever was!
and its a very important virtue in life.

Satheesh Kumar said...

The two fat women in the photo look like they are born to eat...lol

Arun Kumar said...

Keeping too much bottled up anger within you can raise ur BP :P So I Shout it out n then explain patiently.. Works like a charm !! :)